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24-08-2010, 07:37 AM
Ill try and keep this one short and sweet as im going to put up the saturday night too on a separate post... but this one has been running round like a chodey
Went out with my 3 top wings on friday to Brighton, its about midnight and an absolute honey walks past me.... I open as normal..
Hey you!!, you're cute who are you ?
Its opens lovely, the chick starts talking, however... she was fucking plastered (so theres key 1 )
Anyways long story cut short, we talk, we take a piccy togther, I get her number and then I kiss closed, using the old fav "so how good a kisser" are you... she's so drunk she says "how good looking am I.. oh about a 3" I reply "no how good a kisser are you ?"
she replies 6, I think fuck this, I lunge in and snog her...
To spare the details, but its a passionate snog, it ends and off she trots very embrassed to find her friends,blah blah
So the night ends off AT 2am and I leave the club, the chick is no where to been seen, so I txt her... I get a good reply back from here at 3am and by then Im tucked up in my bed..
I leave it on the saturday and ring her on the sunday at 4.30pm... ring ring ring ring ring... no answer "FLAKE!!!".... so its died a cold death...
So thats the story, now to the gushing shitty part... I got into pickup 3 months ago to ultimately get better with women and to find my dream chick.. Now this chick was a dream type girl for me and this flake... my first proper one has fucked me up a little bit, Is the first time in 3 months since starting out that I have felt "depressed".. maybe I should wipe the photo of the chick and me off my pc.. fuck knows...
If I was to rate the chick Id say she was a 8.5.. If I was to tick boxes... Cute, Yes, short and petite Yes, Well educated and quite posh, Yes, Blonde,Yes about 23, Yes...
However I think I need to face the stark relality is that I used pickup techniques to snog a very drunk girl, who probably would of snogged Gary Glitter had he been there, and basically she sobered up and thats life move on!!
So my question to you guys, is it normal to be a bit downbeat after your first sucess? and how did you motivate yourself to get back up and start again? From memory.. im trying to remember the term for it.... Oneitious ? or something...? But its really got me down, my buddy in work yesterday in work asked if I was ok as I appeared to be "down in the dumps"
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24-08-2010, 09:27 AM
There's literally nothing to be depressed about here. The more you meet girls and the more you get number closes, I think you'll find a good majority of those numbers would flake even when you're convinced they wouldn't. The girl flaking in your field report is normal.
Saying this, I think a lot of the time, flakey numbers come from how strong your interaction was with them in the first place. But obviously that's going to come with practice.
Just stick at it.
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24-08-2010, 09:42 AM
yep I agree.. just a shame I got a txt from her and she was a absolute honey...
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24-08-2010, 09:54 AM
a text means nothing.
just chill, go after more girls.
saying shes perfect and fulfills all your criteria is retarded. if thats what makes up your "dream girl" and is enough to get you thinking this much about one girl, gain some perspective
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24-08-2010, 10:12 AM
yes your right.. but you should of seen her mate...
but yep your right... theres another 6 around the corner.. fuck it move on
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24-08-2010, 10:21 AM
She might have been in church, at her parents, out running. There is a million reasons a girl don't answer her phone. give it a day or so and give her another call.
But main thing is what everyone else has said, don't focus so hard on the result, if she flakes so what....is always another one around the corner.
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24-08-2010, 11:38 AM
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.. maybe I should wipe the photo of the chick and me off my pc.. fuck knows...
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Yes, Do it..! It shouldnt be there in the 1st place.
Mate, at least you kissed her "passionately". When you have been in the community long enough, you realise "flaking" is all part and parcel of it. Then you will read back this post, smile/laugh and say "WTF, was I thinking about?".
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24-08-2010, 12:26 PM
I reckon the flaking is to do with her state. Basically her last memory of you is kissing you passionately, and she will have had time to think of it and tried to rationalize it. Now when she is not in the same state that she was when you were kissing, and she recieves your phone call, she will be thinking, "Oh dear God, this guy is ringing me, and all he wants is to do is get into my pants".
You've lost this one.
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24-08-2010, 01:06 PM
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"flaking" is all part and parcel of it. Then you will read back this post, smile/laugh and say "WTF, was I thinking about?".
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This.
Tebbs mate, i went out on Friday night, and pulled this smoking hot barmaid who worked at the pub we were at. When she finished her shift she was all over me like a rash, amazing kino, kissing, awesome conversation, it was fucking on.
I made some solid day2 plans for a couple days later. What happens bro? She FLAAAKKKKEES! But seriously dude, it really doesnt matter at all. Of course id have loved to seen this girl again and id have definitley loved to have fucked her but i enjoyed the time we had and as legend says its all part of it. Get yourself familiar with non attatchment my friend and appriciate the interaction for what it was. Believe me bro theres gonna be plenty more like it, some which will flake and some which wont.
Just remember bro, you had a cool interaction with a girl you like and you kissed her. How awesome is that man? Could you have done that a year ago? Fuck what could of been and be proud of yourself for seeing a hot girl and making a move, you did what 90% of guys out there couldnt ever do, and fuck all this 'used PU techs to kiss a drunk girl' bollocks too, you kissed a girl end of
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24-08-2010, 02:38 PM
deffo mate your right, this time a year ago I would of never done that...
and Zed yes your deffo right mate... but the moral of this has been, good effort.. and next one please !!!
thanks to all the responders for your help, its appreciated, so thanks..
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