Pick yourself up and dust yourself off and move on. Delete the picture off your PC for a start, to put it up there in the first place is a bit odd, is that you and her as your avatar?? get rid of it man!

There are no perfect ones... just girls u really really like.. it hurts... but deal with it... what are u gonna do take her on holiday

that would be stupid

First off, you've only been at this 3 months, that's hardly any time at all. You're in this to change the way you've been behaving towards girls for a lifetime. Don't expect any quick fixes.

Secondly, how do you know this is your dream girl. She could be an absolute nightmare once you get to know her. You're expecting too much from so little.

Thirdly, like Hustler said, get that pic deleted. It serves no purpose but to remind what you thought you could have had but don't.

We are all here to broaden our options. The more you learn, the less you will care about individual girls being 'the one'.

i meant the perfect as a rating on looks like a 9 or 10 etc, and yes your right she could of been a nutter

the negative mood was down to the fact I was back at work too after the weekend, and also the other issue of the town myself and captain freedom live in.

The further we travel away, the more "logistically" difficult it becomes, the closer we get to home the more chavvy the chicks become

but you guys are right.. picture deleted, girl forgotten about.. done..

That's why the post is prefixed by "I reckon" dude. Seems I was having a field day with theories yesterday!

ha yeah thats kowalski 4 ya

Dude, you did not tell me the results when i asked because?! Sounds like you had an awesome night. You really shouldn't be despressed! You got off with a stunner!! You may never hear from her again? Fuck it...Her loss. Fact is, you done it once, you can do it again and again and again...The GREAT thing about it is your just going to keep getting better and better and better at it until the girls, wait wait...The STUNNING girls are begging you to kiss them/text them/phone them, whatever!

Treat Friday as a stepping stone. Your only going to find even HAWTER girls out and about. You've given yourself the confidence to approach. You've shown yourself that you can kiss close a hawt girl, mate...Your set!!

Why not ask when a good time to call would be when you get the number? Might help but you'll always get flakes.

There are no perfect girls, just imperfect ones you get along with.

Rock n roll

to be honest with you guys, after having 2 weeks out from sarging, a long weekend away from the sea in Dorest, a 3 hour train journey down there and back listening to foundations, its done me the world of good.

I cant wait to get back out there sarging this weekend and flakes... yeah who cares, there will be more.. Bring em on !!