Think u might have a drinkin problem. HeHe

well guys I'd love to post an awesome message tonight but I can't. I've definatly got a case of one itis. I know it's very afc but I really struggle to have feelings toward more than one woman at once.

So anyway, Friday was a decent night, I was very bouncy from getting some positive texts from this one girl and opened a couple of sets and winged a couple off the back of this, the last one was realy good as I was in for ages and allowed athony to number close (awesome).

Anyway this girl who I'm really into said shed ring on the Saturday and never did but u got a text off her saying she might not be able to make our date. Was really bummed about it and really couldn't be arse on the Saturday night, really down and In a bad place. So went out with the guys, chatted to a few sets that had already been opened ad wing one which was ace as I did my salsa moved on one of them, I also opened a fee times but couldn't be arsed due to the one itis!

I really need some progress as I'm kind of platoing out and maybe having abundace will fix this, but I really feel like shit at the moment and loosing all beleif that I'm ever going to be successful with women and will die cold and lonely! Any how I'm definatly made my mind up to do a boot camp to try and fix what is very broaken after years of neglect and beleive this is my last and only hope.

Peace out guys.

Retro

Do a bootcamp if you want man but it's not gonna be a magic fix , you've been out with us enough to know it can be done ....

I love you man and think your awsome but i think you really need to have a good look at yourself and think about that before you do anything else !

Come to Vegas...Lol. just relaxing having a coffee after another a fab night out....just reading some of the threads. Retro, if I count the number of dates I've been cancelled, I could commit suicide...move on matey. Plenty of girls around or if all fails, fuck bootcamp, come to vegas....

Don't fly man, but thanks for the offer

I do man, every time i look in the mirror and i'm still not happy with what i see. I do know whats wrong though, but it's going to take a hell of a lot of fixing. Coming from a place where November last year i couldn't stop someone in the street and ask for directions. we are a long way from that but still don't beleive in myself, don't beleive i'm attractive to the opposite sex, i'm still doing the "fake it untill you make it stuff" and i am definatly a fake.

I'm going to have to practice some canned openers again and just deliver them, as there are times when nothing comes to mind sometimes, and while i want to do the Tim opener of "Hi i' Tim, i thought you were cute, i just had to meet you", i can't bring myself to do it, i'm still really worried by the outcome.

The idea behind the boot camp was one where they do cloths, body language, eye contact.. basically all the stuff i'm shit at and then do openers and stuff.

Retro

Retro

Dont know why yr being so hard on yrself pal.

Like u just said, 5month ago u couldn't stop someone & ask for directions, now u'v got girls textin u & yr showing them yr salsa moves. Pat yrself on the back m8t u deserve it

You said u have come along way..... COS U HAVE.

If you think a Bootcamp will help you out, go for it.

If you can PM me the details man, that would be awesome

I'll find some tolle stuff as well and have a read.

Cheers man

Retro

I had to cut my last post a little short as i was off out. The bit about EC, was not just looking at people, its about what my Eye's are actually saying. When we were out on the Friday night, there was that 3 set in Wallrus (the 2 married ones and the 1 single one that anthony number closed), anyway one of the married said to me "you have a GF", as she was married i thought i'd humor her to see where she was going with it, she said she could tell as it didn't come accross like i wanted anything unlike the others.

So like i say, its not actually making eye contact, but is what they are communication and how to change it, along with the body language and everything.

Retro

Hey K,

Thanks for the information bud. Spent Tuesday evening googling and reading about Alexander technique and decided it was something I could do with especially considering I do spend 8 hours a day sitting on the computer, regular weight training and straining my back all the time. And hopefully it will improve my body language too. Spoke briefly to Lucy yesterday and I booked a first session + consultation with her on Tues early evening, cost £55 and we will take it from there. If anyone want to contact her, mobile number is on her website www.withpoise.co.uk !!

Im looking forward to it now and if anyone else interested I will report back on the !!!

Thanks again.