So I didn't do much approaching on Thursday mainly because I was getting opened. Really weird night as I got opened three times.

Warm up set.

Me: Hi, you guys are adventurous right?
Girl A: Yeah sure.
Me: But how good a liar are you?

Then went in to a Kino routine I learnt about pushing on the arm and how it becomes weaker when you lie. This worked a treat and she started opening up and asking me all kinds of questions. Eject from the set shortly after as it was only a warm up set and I wasn't interested.

I'm opened #1

See some friends in the metal bar and they invite me over. This blonde HB7 girl stood next to them at the bar opens we with a "Where do you go out?" line that I thought was adorable. So I answer her and turn back to my mates. Turns out one of them knows her and introduces me. I squeeze her hand and she squeezes back (IOI).

We all go for a cigarette and she joins her friend.

I'm opened #2

I'm stood their smoking with a mate and HB7's friend opens me with

Her: Thats such a cool leather jacket, your so fashionable.
Me: Thankyou
and then continue talking to my mate.

After a few seconds go in to the Kino routine I am road testing and yet again it works. Asks for my name (IOI), gives hers and then starts asking me about what I do.

Me: I drink and contribute very little to society.

I then tell her what I really do and we chat some more before she is whisked away by her other friend. Who my mate has been talking to.
Two minutes later.

Her: You've read the game haven't you?
Me: I've read a lot of books why do you ask?
Her: My friend says that's in there?
Me: She wants to check her facts because it's really not.

Then transition into saying about how I really like magic cos it amuses me and she goes on about how she doesn't believe in magic which I think is very sad blah blah blah.
My mate comes over just at the point when she is going on about you might as well believe in God and he jumps in. It was the most boring conversation and he ends up leaving with her.

It was at that point I realised I'd been amog'd. There is no way her mate has read the game. He was talking to her and obviously slipped that in to conversation before coming in and hijacking my set. It may seem a little paranoid but he has done it before and more blatantly by coming over to a girl we both know and saying that I'm gaming her.

The question I want to ask is how do I deal with this shit? I try and stay away from him most of the time but he seems to find his way in to some of my sets anyway. I could just punch him in the face but that would be wrong .

I'm opened #3

I'm sat down in the bar and I hear oh my God it's you to my left. It's a HB9 that I was talking to a couple of months back and cold read so well she said I had mind raped her (with a smile so it was ok).
She sits down and we start chatting with her friend getting increasingly bored to her side.
I go through the kino routine again, another success and she asks me for a cigarette. I joke about how she doesn't change and she's all take take take. Another of my friends sits down as her friends trying to drag her away but she wants to stay. He says something to me and I turn for a second but the momentary distraction makes her go with her friend.
Not really bothered about this one. She's really hot but has a boyfriend. Think I might play the long game on this one and concentrate on other women.

Left shortly after as I started feeling sick. Shouldn't have got shitfaced the night before lol.

Rock n Roll

Well, you're not happy with his behaviour right, even though he's gaining from your interactions with girls it seems? So, tell him straight, you won't stand for his jealous highjacking bullsh*t, else you won't be going out with him gaming any more.

how close is this mate of yours?
if hes a good friend, ask him as a friend to stop fucking up your approaches, either stay away or teach him how to wing,
if yas are not that close, next time he comes over, make a twat of him, treat him like any other AMOG,

I think you need to tackle this head on. If you don't tell him he won't know why you're being making a tit out of him. Teach him the value of bigging up each other, and how this can help the both of you!

Ok your probably right,
But if after you have explained this to him, he continues to let you open then steal the prize, can you then make a tit of him?

haha, I guess he'll deserve it then!

sorry rocknrolla, dont mean to hijack your thread but i have recently been encoutering a similar problem

a very close friend of mine is a natural pua even if he doesn’t know it but only when he is pissed.
I find it highly difficult to compete with, I mean its funny as hell and awesome to watch him actually run around the room chewing ears off, but when he notices myself in a set he feels the need to intervene which is not the problem,
The problem is that my friend just doesn’t shut up, talks and talks and if I talk he talks louder, the set either appoints him centre of attention or disperses.
I don’t know how to handle it, I can’t confront him because its not his fault, its just who he is. I love the guy to bits so don’t what to risk jeopardising any of our friendship.

Hmmm... it can't hurt letting him know he's messing up your side of things, if he values your friendship then he'll feel the same way and not let it get in the way of this. Perhaps another wingman/girl is needed to disarm your friend too

The first rule of friendship should always be honesty. My problem is my guy is not that good a friend any more so he may not respond well to confrontation. I'm gonna do it anyway and then if all else fails out amog him until he learns.

If your mate is a good friend he should understand that this is a problem for you and respect your space. If he doesn't he's not that good a friend. I'm not dissing him because the alcohol is obviously a contributory factor but if he's real a good friend he'll understand. Like someone else said earlier in the thread, teach him how to wing and it'll be good for both of you.

Rock n Roll