So I started this morning on the bus listning to some music when I noticed this HB8 blonde come sit next to me, she was cute and i have noticed her before but never said hello.

She sat opposite me and for some reason i thought id link that to an IOI (later on when she left i remembered she always sit at the back of the bus) I opened with is kissing cheating because i also had luck with that and it went pretty well, she was intrested at first but then she was like yes it is cheating.

I think my sticking point here was the fact that after i opened and built attraction i found it hard transitioning into qualification on the bus.

when i got stuck i said This happened on an island so its a different mindset have you ever been traveling
her: no I have been to florida but thats it
Me: You really should


but then i lost it, didnt know where to so i went with work and she tells me she works in admin

so i ended up going back to the opener again!! I was like yeah i can understand houw you view it, then she says because she has already been cheated on she feels strongly about it


then i immediatly went for a number close because i realised we erecoming close to her stop, told her we were out this weekend and she should come, and then she says her bf wont like that


obv the mistake i made was not building enough comfort, and another was not stacking or multithreading, i honestly dont know why i wasnt nurvous or anything. I guess its my reliance on canned materials as openers

My day game is horrendous thats 3 sets in 3 that i crashed and burned on da game although i have improved expontetionly on my night game, my day game still needs a bit of refining


what about you day game mpua's what would you to multithread?

Say anything that comes into your head, within reason of course.. Look up Jeremy Soul on youtube, he's extremely good at day game and will give you some good ideas on it. No canned material, just a fully natural conversation. Sometimes thinking too much about what to say will ruin it for yourself and cause you to get nervous.

Edit. Also look up Yad and Andy Yosha

Wo, wo, slow down there. You are doing pretty damn good mate. You've only done 3 sets so far, start thinking long term about this. Also stop thinking about stacking and multireading (this will distract you from listening to the girl, which you owe to her). Just let the convo flow more and take it to a place where you can show your genuine interest in the girl. Try and give value, not seek it.

Start a multithread mate. I did one a while back called - 'My First Day Game Thread' (do a search)... it helped me no end. It's how I met my girlfriend.

cheers nova I will most definitely do that


and D, ill check those names thanks again

This guy inspired me to do day game. His interview on a website called Pickuppodcast.com blew my mind with regards to being unashamed of your sexuality.

I'll have to have a listen to this, thanks for the heads up.

Me too, cheers nova

Lightning - I am totally with Nova.....this isn't a blow out at all - you've approached 3 Sets and managed to keep some sort of conversation going without blowing yourslef out - this is progression and development not failure....if you look at every interaction as pass or fail you will fail loads and get dejected and chuck it in...look at each approach as a learning curve - that way you take positives from each Set. And man - you opened an a bus - that's hard shit....you're going in the right direction Brother - give it time and practise and a bit of faith too and you'll be rocking soon

cheers Shark, this is my second set on the bus. It isnt hard just say you need a females opinion. Thats gold

Just heard his podcast Nova, he really speaks the truth. Cheers for the heads up

One thing about the subject opener - if I were asking a girl if she thinks kissing is cheating, then it had better be 'this girl I was seeing was seen kissing a guy, is it cheating? We broke up anyway.'

If the question were just 'do you think kissing someone else is cheating?', I'd be concerned that the target thinks I'm in a relationship and go around kissing other girls, with her as my next objective. I'd think the target would then view me in a bad light, as a cheater who would also kiss girls behind her back as well.