Went out for drinks in Leeds with a cuteish girl I met online. (Not sure how to to do the 1-10 scale and don't much care, I would like to bang her is the main thing)

Hadn't done much internet chat beforehand just a little banter before setting up a meet and #closing online.

Used decent text game to build attraction.

Met her tonight, she wasn't as into Kino as some but not much resistance either. She said she has issues with touching guys she doesn't know too well.

She could tell I was a bit of a player (which is a DHV surely), but this didn't stop me having a nice K Close on the train.

She had to be up early so I didn't try hard for the bang.

I might see her again and F Close or I might attempt to use her as a pivot/wingwoman in future. I'm new to Yorkshire so we'll see.

At the moment, I have an FWB, a previous K Close on back burner and a pretty redhead #close where I'm trying to set up a meet. I think this helps having an abundance or "next" mentality with these girls but dealing with more than four would fry my brain right now.

well done mate

we are meeting up for a sarging session in headingly tommorow if your up for it, PM me

its my experience that with online dating it depends entierly on the girl, sometimes it can take a day and sometimes it can take a month for the F close

ive had both and generally speaking no matter how much you like her if you F close on the first night you lose attraction, and fast
esp if you dont know the girl.

Ofcourse there is age and background that differs but thats my experience anyways.

Chances are if she meets you on the first day and sleeps with you shes done it quite a few times before, if she says shes never done this before and feels fine with the kino then its a complete lie.

So personally ill take the whole im not comfortable as an overall good sign

again well done mate.

The FWB I met there is totally comfortable and FCloses everyone she meets on the site on Day 1. I'm not complaining

The others give off a shy vibe and with good reason as Players use the site as an adjunct to other game

which site is it anyways lol

You want the biggest ones with the most girls, plus I have a target demographic in mind lol

lol yeah but what site is it, because i am not sure if places like match.com are worth cashing out for a bit of game

It is match. They aren't very expensive though, considering all the women you can attract while surfing the web anyway. It's a cheaper cost per approach for me than a club would be, plus because I'm new to the area it gives me kino plus making out while I'm exploring the venues the girls are telling me about lol. Plus potential future pivots

I don't watch TV and am normally online a lot, it's a no brainer for me, plus I have an unusual demographic of women that interest me

lol ive tried match but didnt have much like

go for POF.com that one is free and plenty of fcloses there
in the past 12 months i got 8 f closes and countless kcloses

so go for it

Kowalski you read what he said, he doesnt watch tv much and spends most of his time online, so I was just suggesting what I used before I got into the game.

But I dont agree with you on how you view our attitudes, I am just speaking from experience, becoming a PUA increases your chances of getting a girl yes because it raises ones confidence

but style himself said that it turns men cynical, the more you learn the more you find out that a girl with a bf is very likely to cheat on her bf

honestly if you want a LTR then taking a girl home isnt the best way

its human nature, we value what we work hard for to get.

Firstly, is being into Pickup not supposed to be opening up your options?? The internet is not opening up your options, nor like you say 'working hard'. This is the easiest way to set up a date with a random girl and in my experience not satisfying in any shape or form.

Also, how do you know what kind of girls you are gonna be getting for you exchange of 10 emails and 20 texts, plus 5 weeks of manouvres? You get a couple of best ever photos that hide the fat and annoying voice, so pretty much get less than you'd hoped.

Lastly, do not date a girl with the thought - I want a LTR. This will have the opposite effect and the pressure will be self destructuve. Take every relationship, whether a friend or a girl one day at a time.