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02-06-2010, 06:58 PM
Apologies for any inconveniece caused
     
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03-06-2010, 08:08 AM
At least grow some stubble
"It is if he puts his balls between the strings, and strums himself to ecstasy!"
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03-06-2010, 10:03 AM
This is really groundbreaking stuff K! Which leaves me wondering...why have I not grown a beard yet? I'll get on this right away and field test it.
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03-06-2010, 10:43 AM
Beards all the way!!
K's right beards. As vital as beards are, start considering being sexual with girls and start allowing yourself to do this (this involves taking risks). I've heard girls talking about on this very fact and they are pissed off at having to make a move on guys constantly because they didn't have to balls to do it themselves. Sneaking under the radar and pretending to be friends is not the route to take.
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03-06-2010, 10:51 AM
K already has a beard
If you can't grow a proper one get one here http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=15S0g8pG6HU&feature=fvw "It is if he puts his balls between the strings, and strums himself to ecstasy!"
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03-06-2010, 11:00 AM
The guy on that video has all sorts of useful advice. Check this one out. It's absolutely legit, gets the girls frothing at the gash
YouTube - Show Me Your Genitals
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03-06-2010, 02:51 PM
mate,
this scenario that you have found yourself in, is something that i deeply sympathise in.. as when i was at uni, i was virtually in love with this girl for the first two entire years... she 100% friend-zoned me. I waited patiently, was the nicest guy to her... did things that other girls would dream about their boyfriends doing for them. I was infatuated with her for both her personality and looks, we had a very deep connection. Some on those things i did for her. Keeping her company, being playful, buying her gifts, supporting her in her studies, even met the whole family just didnt hook her... When i met her i had a GF which i broke up with, in order to be with this girl. (perhaps this may have been part of the reason why i never ended up with her, as she met me initially as a taken guy and a no-go zone?) ...it was frustrating as I did everything she could ever want, but got flat out friend-zoned for two years... Maybe this might help you or not, i cant really advise you on this because i myself failed at it. There came a point, where after so many 'not right now' type responses, i had had enough, and needed to know where i stood... i asked her honestly, and seriously, would she ever be my girlfriend. The speech i had memorised and even written down and rehearsed infront of the mirror was immense, a collaboration of every misleading romantic movie ive ever seen.... ....her answer was NO at that point i resigned myself from her. I told her, that in order to ever be happy again and with someone else, i couldnt stay friends with her... MY personal weakness is seeing a girl i like with soemone else... and i knew that with her, i couldnt possibly handle it. After being basically best friends, and virtually living together for 2 years, i walked away and never saw her again. One of the toughest decisions ive made in my life! do i regret it?? yes and no... ... i think it could quite easily be viewed as the cowards way out, and perhaps that is true. But i am a man of facts and black and white information. I knew that despite a tough initial settling period, i could get over it, and that without her around me, i would move on more quickly! Now i can look back and say honestly, that i would never consider her as a possible match for me in the slightest 'not now at least'. and would have no problems seeing her now, as a friend, I am infact very confident that if we ever met again, through a university reuinion or something, i think ive developed enough to perhaps make her doubt herself!! Also, if i were to meet her for the first time now, i beleive that with my current knowledge and experience, i could have taken our relationship into a very different direciton from the off, and had i done that, things would have panned out differently! anyways, all im saying is... thats how i dealth with my situation, its an option, your decision... Kowlaski's advice earlier is similar to what i would do if i ever had another opportunity at this scenario Good luck. Picard.
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03-06-2010, 03:20 PM
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Secondly, I am trying to get to grips with who exactly this pervy guy is you are trying to avoid being? Surely the pervy guy is the one who drools over the girls from afar and does not act on his instincts. I imagine you are avoiding rejection more than anything, as this was the prime reason I failed to get any girl I dreamed of at university. A golden rule I've followed the past year is to avoid thinking of girls in terms of girlfriend material, even after many dates. A relationship is something should grow naturally, not be someone asking another, 'do you want to be my girlfriend?'
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