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Never really had this one before, so I wanted to see what people thought about it.

Was having quite an enjoyable chat with a rather adorable young lady earlier in town today. Opened about as direct as you can by telling her outright that I thought she was adorable, and she loved it. After chatting for a few mins, I asked her if she wanted to go for a coffee, and after some hesitation she told me she had a boyfriend that she loved very much and would not be able to cheat on him because, well she was a nice lass, fair enough. However, we chatted a bit more and it started to get to a point where I was gonna leave it alone and be on my way, but she blatantly didn't want me to go and wanted to carry on chatting, which was cool but it got to a point where I just thought 'well you've clearly stated that this is not gonna happen so I actually wanna move on and find another girl that doesn't have a boyfriend', and I made it pretty obvious by killing the tone of the conversation, but I could tell she was more than happy to satnd there chatting and so I entertained her for a little while longer and in the end went for the number, which she reluctantly gave me.

So, I'm not sure what to make of it cos if it's not gonna happen then i don't even wanna waste my credit, but I'm really not sure to be honest. I think if I could play this right she might be up for a meet. And yes I know she's got a boyfriend but show me a hot girl that hasn't.

nice job on the approch man, i suck at day game,

sounds like she has been in this relationship along time and they are going through some rocky times maybe the spark they once had everyday has been reduced to once a week and now he has her in the bag stopped showing her the attention he did in the early stages,

think if i was in your shoes i would just drop her a text along the lines of (hey drop me a text when you fancie a coffi) then carry on having fun.

who knows you might get a text in a few weeks or months.

TorchedFrog's suggestion about texting her is spot on. She can be a "back burner" for the future. When you have made a GREAT impression on her and in the future when things dont work out with the bf, who knows, she might get in touch with you...!! And/or a weekly text to say hello and maybe a friendly coffee, go a long way in building attraction...! It is game on as long as she hasnt blown you out...! We all should have back burners...! Nice one with the day game. Much Respect!

Thanks guys. My game started to get pretty solid today, more so than ever I think. Let me assure you though I got blown out HARD more than once. I got blown out in Primark big time by this woman who said rather agressively 'I'm married leave me alone you little shit' HAHAHA was my reaction. It was literally just too embarassing to deal with so I just started pissing myself. And I opened a deaf girl!!! No shitting you I actually opened a deaf girl! She was hot too.
Good day all in all though. Two phone numbers and some serious progression with my inner game.

Yeah I'm deffo gonna text her. Probs what you said TF. Just let her know that I'm here if she wants me (ohhh yes I am). She is pretty fine I'm getting a fucking semi on just thinking about her fine ass. :D

Whoop! Whoop! Nice one SJ! as TF says just drop her text, you've nothing to lose and potentially alot to gain by just being speculative. Obviously nothing intense, overbearing or too commital on her part.....you've been in this game long enough now to realise that.

Also, since when have you been doing day game??

i laughed my ass off at the deaf girl, i'm going to use that as an opener tonight but put me in your shoes, maybe improv should start running lessons on sign langauge.

I'd text her... HB usually have HB friends...

Have just been making a few approaches in the day when I've been out for whatever reason, but this was my second day actually out day gaming. I think I actually am starting to like it, a lot more so than night game. Girls are just a lot friendlier in the day, and you don't get the usual cock block from the mates like you do in night game. I'm just worried that if I do it for long enough I might start to hit on the same girls. Bristols not that big, I'm always bumping into people.

Man...it was funny! I actually tried carrying on, but she wasn't up for it. Now that would be a challenge. :cool: