ok iv been goin on sorter coffe dates wiv this bird for 3 weeks or wateva tonight i went out adiment i was guna get the kiss close, and then the date began it was goin well until, i started reading her body language and she said stop reading my body language i was shocked, then she told me she been reading mine on every date and not giving any out 2 me, i was shocked again then she said she has made a profile about me in her head and started telling me my personality down 2 a T. and not 2 try any chat up on her just be myself, she then went on and told me that she has a degree in phsycology and criminal phsycology and thats how she new wat i was doin and goin 2 do next,

anyway the date ended and as i walked her back 2 her block she turned around and said that she was my target/challenge but now she's my conquest, i couldn't believe it, then she also said if u want me u gotta work 4 me, this girl is the most interesting girl iv ever spoke 2 and the hardest 1 at that im gona keep trying but not get 1 itis she has become a whole new mission 4 me il let u know how things go.

sounds like you picked a tough target!

there was a really good post a while back on here... lots of good material and reading, perhaps you can find somehtign on there to get back in the ring with her...

assuming thats what you want??

sounds as if... yuo got shut down by an expert, but do you want to go in and try and beat her (at her game) lol??

i probably would... then again im stubborn...

Picard

lol picard man i no u would try from wat i read about u, il just carry on and try and find a way around her shes gotta slip up at somepoint, we'll see wat happens hey.

im just trying to think about how you could possibly go about this one...

off the top of my head...

next time you see her,

perhaps you could try, relayign back her 'profile' as it were to her... cold-read, and try and get her profile down.... call yourself an 'amateur psychologist' if you will???

haha! will be funny to see her reaction...

failing that.... may the negging begin!!!

Lol - Picard, we'd get on, and im such a star trek fan too. Xxx

Id take comfort she likes you. She said she wants you to be yourself, so she can see you under your game and she likes what she sees.

She sounds like a woman who's intelligent, head strong and knows what she wants. She's gonna be a mind fuck tho bro, but sometimes they're the most fun.

I'd stop gaming her, just be myself and throw a snowball at her, see how it goes.

cheers dolphin and picard ur a great help i will b myself and she wat the crazy bitch comes up wiv next lol,

Dolphin's right. Take your opportunity to be yourself. She wants to get to know you.

A side note. I'd personally try not to read body language or look for a girl's IOIs. You will become reliant on how she acts and doubt yourself when she doesn't feed you the positive reactions you are looking for, even though she may well like you.

also... you could try and friend-zone her...

try telling her your like tyhe sister you never had

women 'hate' it when you do that, and often will try and wriggle their way out at any cost.

worth a shot if u fancy?

Pic.

I don't understand why you would need to use such a tactic. She is already helping you along (regardless of rumbling your body language reading). Chill and start revealing the real you to her. It is a good opportunity to be authentic rather than contrived.

just an option, for the arsenal.