Funny date

[nova]

So this afternoon I met the Chinese chick that I chatted up a couple of weeks ago in the shopping mall. I’m waiting at the bus station and she rolls up. She walks over as I’m about to kiss her some dude rolls in behind her and she introduces her friend to me! OK, not a problem, I did promise to show her some sites, I guess he can come for the ride too. Years ago this would have phased me, but now I’m happy to be friendly to him and escalate with the girl while he looks on haha!

I take them into the depths of the Northern Quarter and show them some cool architecture. We chat away and I start working the physical contact touching her back and arm, any excuse. After 10 mins I grab her hand and she likes this. Conscious of the dude and any social boundaries I let go and we carry on towards a pub I want to show them. She decides we should have a drink and buys me one. I make some tactical moves so that she ends up sitting right next to me on the sofa. We chat, all good, great eye contact and I was creating plenty of sexual tension. After a while I grab her hand again, and then she goes ‘Do you think my friend would be jealous seeing us holding hands?’ I just said I didn’t know, as I don’t know the guy.

I then head to the toilet and when I get back she tells me that her friend likes me, and that he had in fact insisted on coming along to accompany her, in case I was a badman! What a chode. This all felt rather odd, like I was being screened, but hey that’s what happens on dates anyway, at least their being honest.

We left and I grabbed her hand as we headed to the bus station. We say goodbye and I shake the dude’s hand and then hers, and then she tells me she wants to hug me… can’t be bad. She then tells me she’ll get me round for food with her friends. I suppose that’ll be one step closer to the bedroom!!

[Stein]

Chaperone? Seriously?

Invite her round yours for food or to a party or something instead dude. You need to get this chick on her own.

[Boscher]

Jesus, she bought a Male friend? To a date? Without even telling you beforehand? Seems like you handled it like a pro! I would have been on edge the entire date. Plus, I just see it being incredibly awkward. Was it her older brother?

I agree with Stein. Screw meeting her with all her friends again, you've just already cleared that stage, make it apparent what your intentions are. You likely have enough "friends". That is not your endgame. You should have cultivated enough trust for your initial meeting to gain one-on-one time, at least in a public place. Unless she's some sort of paranoid former rape victim, it's a bit of an odd level of insecurity.

[nova]

Sure guys, I know I need to get this chick on her own. I think the next installment may provide that, just need to angle it all to suit. She was prob saying shit about getting me round with friends for the sake of her mate... and he ain't no brother, he's the chode friend who fancies her (damn it, I was there once!).

[Rebus]

you are all wrong

this quiet Asian bird is actually a player

she is playing you towards setting up a threesome...

...an FMM one!

[daleinthedark]

Hmm I would put it down to her culture. That's always something that I have struggled with when picking up oriental girls: some seem rather westernized, whereas a lot of them seem socially awkward like it is a "sin"...

I don't know enough about eastern cultures to discern what is them, what is social programming though

[Refl3x]

Chinese culture works by friends introducing and engineering a date between 2 people,
they all meet in a group situation and it goes from there.

her bringing a guy with her (especially if she is not from this country???) would seem weird but is prolly fairly normal, guy or gal being brought along.

traditionally chinese girls are eager to please, in the kitchen/home and bedroom and squeal the place down aswell as being as tight as a small boy lol