The "Graduation"?

That will be the moment u feel like "I AM THE MAN" cos u have made it, in all aspects of ur life. Mines coming soon.

& it wont just be for a moment.

Nah im talking about when u feel like the boss, got about 4 or 5 girls on the go at any one time, are exceeding in the career u want which u get immense job satisfaction from, are 100% happy with ur life, & nothing or no-one could make u feel shitty in any way shape of form.

I will be very happy when im there.

Dan, happiness is a choice. How you choose to react to things in your life.

Yes momentary happinness comes when things are good, but real happiness is making the best of what you have and living in the moment.

I am (mostly) happy. I am in control of (most) things in my life. I dont just make the best of what ive got, i make things better cos i make things happen.

Im moving to Belfast next week, i have work lined up there, i am in the middle of a local anti drug project, i am recognised & respected locally for my work against drugs, i am always positive even taking positives out of negative shit.

I think outside the box, & 99% of the time i think & be a step ahead, & consider the outcomes of a situation so that i can prepare for them. I always have a plan b, & sometimes even a plan c.

Things are really starting to fall into place, & its all stuff that i made happen by myself.

I say im "mostly" happy cos what i consider to be the most important part & most important person in my life - my son - i have very little say or influence over, for now.