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Phil · 19-06-2012, 07:03 PM

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Originally Posted by Refl3x

regards to flakes- ive found once you stop being outcome dependant - which in laymans terms is 'giving a shit what happens' you will actually win everytime

Yep siry bob

daleinthedark · 19-06-2012, 08:28 PM

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Originally Posted by Refl3x

Personally i think you made the mistake leaving it 5 days before you txt her.
with her living far away, you were already in flaky one off land, and by leving it 5 days to txt her youve lost allcalibaration,temperature (fuck knows what to call it)

You should have txt her next day, used it to get her on your facebook.
that way you can still be connected to her (loosely) without holding a txting relationship that will rapidly run its mileage

then leave her to simmer-- could ask when shes back in leeds-- arrange somthing if its soon, otherwise leave her hanging and at some point you might just see on your news field-- blah blah cant wait to hit leeds tonight
then you can dive in and say rarrrr

somthing like that

regards to flakes- ive found once you stop being outcome dependant - which in laymans terms is 'giving a shit what happens' you will actually win everytime

Reflex beat me to it but 5 days seems really gamey, hot girl or average girl.

Every now and then a girl comes along who totally flips your judgement on flaking, you think you had a crap date, she texts you to organize the next or invites you around to hers. Every now and then somebody will break the rules.

With regards to the current situation, give her a call one evening or at the weekend like Phil suggested.

HammerTime · 19-06-2012, 09:15 PM

I'm beginning to think the 5 days was a bit much. I was too cool for school, but still actually attended.

I wouldn't say I'm outcome dependent, and I hardly ever actually ask questions in texts etc. Generally I have a not-give-a-shit attitude.

Anyway, no answer today so it's not something I'm going to try Facebook stalk her about.

Live and learn.

Maxemillion · 20-06-2012, 10:47 AM

I woud of text her that night AND the next day. thats why I'm going out with her now..

HammerTime · 20-06-2012, 01:12 PM

I just sent her a game leveler yesterday, basically saying I had fun, we should do something but if not that's fine. Fully expecting there to be no reply.

BOOM! Got a reply today. She wants to meet up.

Back to business as usual. Ego restored. Calibration still in check.

Uber · 20-06-2012, 07:47 PM

I agree with Refl3x - this whole waiting several days because one is so cool and important and busy and DEFINATELY not too keen or desperate, I think in the end can backfire, and er looks like it has.

Phil · 20-06-2012, 08:13 PM

Ye how can u text after 5 days and expect her to text str8 back.

lesson learned

HammerTime · 20-06-2012, 09:49 PM

Yeah yeah guys, lesson learned!

Thanks for all the help.