There is no theory. This is not a driving test. I've been meaning to work on a "how to" guide on this forum with everyone on here contributing to it but cba.

Try this. And I'm dead serious:

-Drop everything you've read. Stop reading or watching pua for a very long time.

-Go out and make conversations and interactions with women, even guys.

- Be normal, be cool.

-If it goes well either A)ask them on a date, or if its a night out B) get them alone from their friends and just spend the night with them and then re-join with their friends until you go back to yours or hers place.

- If you get a date then the date is basically an evening of avoiding talking about why you are really there (to bang) and getting her back to yours.

- Another point which is harder to explain and other posters could do way better on writing about. It is about being 'direct' in the way you act but also as if the idea of having sex is COMPLETELY out of your mind.

Example: You may be touching her a lot and dancing, you may have even kissed but when she mentions about sex or going back to yours, you're like "Is that all you think about? let's have a normal conversation for one second".

I can't speak for anyone else but basically every lay I ever had was always borderline platonic right up until we got back to mine. But in a way it was completely the opposite. This is what I mean by 'normal', you're not trying to be dirty or talk sexy or smooth etc.


About 95% of all my close-calls were where I ended up trying to sex talk, escalate too quick, be a bit rapey etc which was always ingrained in my head. If I figured this out right at the beginning I would have had a lay count in the very high double figures rather than the low double figures. I always thought the more sexual and escalating you were the better. Its almost the opposite.

Rant over.