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Originally Posted by daleinthedark
Do you have any success at all? Are you getting laid? Or is it just not as much as you'd like?
I don't think there are necessarily quick solutions to this and I can to relate to having gone through a similar phase.
Personally going out/socialising regularly with friends aiming to have a good time with some flirting in mind really helped me to develop more than studying material.
I find trying to work them into conversation generally comes across as disingenuous, conversation should be organic. As I mentioned before going out to socialise in places that offer opportunity to chat up chicas will really help develop your conversations
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My successes are rare.. if I act like a normal person it will happen maybe once a year. If I go on an "approaching mission" and hit on every girl in the bar I'll get maybe 2-3 phone numbers, maybe 1 date, and every once in a while a date will go well. For reference, last time around I got about 3 lays after about 1000 approaches. Eventually it got to where the probability was so low I couldn't be bothered to keep trying anymore, so I settled for a relationship. (Bad idea in retrospect.)
What sort of commitment are we talking about, with your idea of "just going out socializing with friends"? How many times do you go out a week, and how long do you stay out?