I literally just got off a date (nearly had her in a toilet) and thought I'd put my two cents

Basically I generally go to two/three venues.
1st a busy cafe
2nd a busy bar
3rd a quiet bar

In the 1st act normal, get a bit of banter going.
2nd start banter and flirting, do some kino
3rd I just relax with them, hold em and make out

A personal note on kino: I've now come to the realisation kino isn't really for the girl to become attracted, it's more a way to say to you, yeah you can kiss her now.