Hey, another update:

1#

At the start of the university I've signed up to a couple of societies. Up until now I didn't have time (and will) to take part in them. One of the society members was organizing a house party to which I decided to go.

For the most of the night it was a sausage party as there was only one girl with her boyfriend. Later on, 3 girls came in and I decided to talk to them and introduce myself. One of them instantly caught my eye. She turned out to be a French teacher and seemed like a really interesting person. We had a lot of laugh, talked about languages and the way the accents make us sound differently. I also escalated a bit of touch, i.e: I touched her legs, put my arm around her.

I have a beard which naturally makes me look at least 2-3 years older than I actually am(18). Up until the point when she asked me for my age she seemed really interested. She clearly didn't want to get any further as I was too young for her.

I am totally fine with that, it is understandable and didn't really bother me. As I was leaving the party I asked her to come with me as I want to speak to her. I asked for her number yet she refused. I said that its fine and that its always worth trying.

2#

Me and my best friend and sort of a wing man went to the clubs on one of the weekends. We found a club and as they allowed free entry and some really cheap alcohol, we decided to give it a go. It was generally empty as only few people were standing in groups talking. We started dancing and generally having fun, not really thinking about picking up any girls. Couple of minutes after that 2 girls came in and started looking at us, I invited them to dance with us to which they both agreed. We were now the only 4 people in the club. My friend started working on the older one and I decided to have some fun with the younger girl. We danced, laughed and generally had a lot of fun. As I started to escalate a bit of touch on the younger one (to which she was really responsive) the older one instantly came up to me and told me that I should let it go as it is her sister and she will kill me if I do anything to her.

I assured her that I am here to have fun and not hurt people. She went somewhere and in couple of minutes she came back and told me that she is thinking more and more about letting me have a go with her sister (weird). After that, me and my friend went to the bar to have some drinks. Girls were still dancing, and as we came back I saw that the older one is more into me than my friend. I went to the very center of the club and started dancing by myself. She started orbiting me and generally wanting to get closer. We danced for a bit then as she started to get more excited I gently pushed her away. She was really blown away by that, she clearly didn't expect that to happen yet it made her even more interested. Few minutes after that we were dancing quite closely, touching each other. I went for a kiss, she backed off and told me" Hey you will have a lot of sex but not with me, I have a boyfriend". I tried couple more times with some intervals for more kino and dancing + push and pull yet the same thing happened. I think she might have really been into her boyfriend and just wanted to have fun.

In both of these situations I had more close contact with women than ever before. Even though I didn't have a kiss close I generally feel more confident.
One thing that I noticed is that after I have couple of beers I start to naturally approach a lot of people, have a really good time and generally be a a lot more sociable. I know this is the alcohol that Is allowing me to do that. My question is, how can I make the same thing happen without the use of booze? I can't be constantly drinking just to meet new people.