Originally Posted by kowalski

Hang on a minute!

I did mention being away from friends and family and not being fluent, but that isn't the cause of my bad times. To re-list what actually happened - my girl left, someone stole a significant sum of money and a neighbour has a vendetta against me (which also includes stealing my post, egging my door, etc., it's a real ballache). Top-hat (obviously by mistake) said they were all my choices (except the neighbour), but they definitely weren't.