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Originally Posted by Bunch of Twigs
I often feel really low and feel I've left it far to late I've changed a lot from the man I used to be I used to be extremely shy and hide away and now I don't. Sometimes wonder if its going to be impossible for me.
Anyone any ideas?
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Hey dude, kudos on turning your life around
You've had some great insight on here so far but I'm interested on what it is you actually want as opposed to what you think you want.
Are you interested in just bursting the bubble and getting it out of the way? Are you looking for a special moment/connection? Do you want a girlfriend or just to become some PU sex machine?
I think you'd get a lot further in a chilled situation and if I were you I'd try a little online dating.
You'll get to know the girl a little
You can explain you're a little inexperienced
Having a little familiarity/intimacy between you both will help calm the nerves
there's some great info on this:
here's an online dating thread
And a questionable site dedicated to losing your V with online dating
Just to tell you my experience - I had a girlfriend at the time and we were both virgins and it wasn't great, sneaking around parents, no experience let to a tense and not wholly enjoyable experience. Don't expect rainbows and unicorns but I hope you enjoy yourself!