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Originally Posted by virg31
Ok stein what is constructive? Tbh I've discovered my issues an I'm working on them, its validation I get too much validation when I number close a hottie. And I now know why this is, its because of porn and masterbation, so I'm now completely off it.
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Erm....huh?
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Originally Posted by virg31
Cringe to admit? , so if you were put in my situation you would probably end up killing yourself instead of admitting and doing something about it and plowing through and working in your game? Shows how much of a man you really are. It always takes a bigger man to admit at least I dont live in denial, yes I am a virgin and yes I am putting myself out there 2 years isnt that long a time. There's no mask of bravado with me everything I say is 100% real. And thats the only way to move forwards by admitting, and not by cringing to admit.
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I wasn't saying that it's cringe to admit you're a virgin and that you're working on it. That's fine. But that's not what you've been saying. I was specifically talking about when you were bragging about fingering some chubby girl and appearing on some documentary with Beckster, then challenging everyone to 'take the piss out of you now'. Fingering some chubby girl isn't impressive, it's meh. The fat you gave her a massage is funny though. Appearing on a documentary about PUAs chatting up girls in covent garden is just silly, and shows that you don't have the acuity to realise when you're being treated like a PT Barnum curiosity. But what's really cringe is bragging about either of these things on the internet and expecting people to be impressed by them.
Everyone was a virgin at some point. I was a virgin till I was 22, and I somehow survived to that point without killing myself. I also didn't come on to forums waving my own deluded opinions around about how good my game is, despite having close to zero results.
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Originally Posted by virg31
100% I get numbers from hotties and 100% I m still a virgin. Laugh at me all you want but I thought this was a forum to help each not to feel good about yourself at the expense of others(only a person lacking selfworth would do that)
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You can't fuck a number, and getting a girl's number often doesn't mean you will or could get anywhere with her. There are a bunch of reasons a girl will give you her number, most of which are not contingent on her being willing to fuck you. There are a million more reasons a girl might react to you, but ultimately it's the same deal. This is the big fallacy of most
PUA methods, they assume an automatic linear progression from getting numbers or make outs to getting laid, and focus so much attention on that shit that they lose sight of what's actually going on. So again, if you aren't getting laid regularly, the results aren't there. Until you can do that, your game and opinions on game are worth very little.
Yeah, this thread is to help BunchofTwigs. If you want help swallow your pride and ask for it, but don't come on here all cocky asking us to be impressed with the nowhere you've gotten so far. We won't buy it.
And yeah, like Broadsword said this is a bit of a derail, but if you're going to try to give out advice on this topic it's worth us pointing out why said advice should be ignored.