Ok stein what is constructive? Tbh I've discovered my issues an I'm working on them, its validation I get too much validation when I number close a hottie. And I now know why this is, its because of porn and masterbation, so I'm now completely off it. Cringe to admit? , so if you were put in my situation you would probably end up killing yourself instead of admitting and doing something about it and plowing through and working in your game? Shows how much of a man you really are. It always takes a bigger man to admit at least I dont live in denial, yes I am a virgin and yes I am putting myself out there 2 years isnt that long a time. There's no mask of bravado with me everything I say is 100% real. And thats the only way to move forwards by admitting, and not by cringing to admit. 100% I get numbers from hotties and 100% I m still a virgin. Laugh at me all you want but I thought this was a forum to help each not to feel good about yourself at the expense of others(only a person lacking selfworth would do that)