Originally Posted by Witty Pun

Yeah, I'm taking it pretty bad though now tbh. One reason is due to my mates, it's not there fault they just have there own lives and can't really be there for me.

I'm usually confident but I'm feeling really down n lonely at the moment. Shit because we had time apart for a week and I hadn't drank for a few weeks to get my head together (I knew I wasn't being myself and it was effecting the relationship so wanted to clear my head)

In this time I realised it's time for me to get serious and move in with her, or just generally take are relationship to the next step.

But she used this tome to see friends (who have recently also become single) and go out with work mates. (she's only had the job about 3-4 months so hasn't really done that yet) And porbably the main issue in the relationship is we started spending too much time togther. She would always come out with me n my mates n never see any of hers.

So I feel the time apart we had just made her think she wasn't having fun with me. Don't think she realises we could be together and she could see her mates, as normal people do.

We've not texted since Sunday night now. She's away with her mum this weekend n I'm a bit frustrated with what to do. I feel she misses me but has lost attraction due to just spending time and getting really comfortable together.