Broadswords and nova, I don't think you understand, because if you did then you would not say lower your standards....or, maybe, perhaps, perhaps I have a problem, maybe, I'm open to that idea, it could be. But I think I don't have a problem. It is just I cannot see how you can go to bed with anyone who you don't fancy, unless you are doing it thinking of something or somebody else, which for me is nothing I'm interested in. As far as i'm concerned you have to fancy them.

But over time i have come to 'listen' to myself, to those litttle attractions that keep re-occuring, odd little things that I keep noticing. know these women which have these attributes are not what you might call classic attributes. It might just be a little overbite, or a small chin, or eyes which are curved at the upper half and flat at the lower half, or shoulders which are small and drooping, etc, etc.

It is really just a question that over time i have come to understand what i like.

It is not that I have high standards, it is just that these women are rare. For instance, I would be in my element living in the matchstick world of Lowrie. I like stick-thin women, but because of the obesity epidemic we currently have then there are hardly any stick-thin women about. This is the problem.

If you sit on a bench in a town and look at the women passing by, I would say that 99% are overweight to some degree, but over weight is overweight. If we were living back in war-time Britain with food rationing, etc, then I think the percentage of overweight women would be about 50%, and that would be good for me.

It is not me having high standards.

I don't eat like a glutten, i have to eat with moderation and calorie intake sense. So why can't other people. Then they (governments/media) try to change the ideology of people about what is fat or thin to accommodate the problem. Well, I don't think that will work, though it might if there are enough confused people who do not know their own mind. But this is the world we live in.

I am, I am annoyed that people have got fat. It affects my life.

So what do you like? Do you know exactly what you like, or do you just think, 'Oh it is a female, and that is all that matters?'.