I think that by knowing of all the pain in others married lives is like motivation to keep your marriage happy & fulfilled.

Ive never been married yet (if ever?) But I am confident that if 2 people have a connection & really enjoy each other that you can keep it fresh & exciting.

This would be easier to do if it's just the 2 of you but you could always both move to a new town or country. With kids it'll obviously be more complicated.

I dunno, that's just off the top of my head & it's a personal opinion relative to the fact that I've did the whole moving away for a new life thing.

Not

"Let's talk about our feelings & cry together"

But

"Let's fuck off & experience something new together"