I totally get that with kids and early mornings, just finding the time for starters would be pretty difficult. But I also hear a lot of how women just can't be bothered with sex or they are never in the mood once you hit the marriage/kids stage as well.

My friend did look a bit gutted - I remember he told us on his honeymoon how on their first day they ended up going at it about 6 times and he openly admitted he had to tell her to stop because he was shattered and couldn't keep up, 7 years later I guess that's changed days........

It just made me think. If 2 folk are in love and blah blah, would they not still want to get with each other intimiatly and pleasure each other? Or again as time goes on maybe the "love" & feelings toward your other half changes? I get the feeling once marriage and kids come along, the importance & value of sex diminishes a lot - from hearing my friends talk mostly on the females side.