jholliday200, I get the picture. All I know is that if you get a reputation for being up for casual sex, then they all want it, but some will not want it casual, maybe because they don't want to share you. This could be a good sign for what you are after...a good and faithful relationship. But I would add that if you do start a relationship with such then don't hold back or you will be creating a sham. Do what the porny thing you like, and she likes. Make sure it is as good as she or you could get anywhere.