hey guys this is my 1st post and im in situation where my friends that i go out with are not really the greatest wings. well for starters the banter is a laugh in the local but in a club theres no 'my set, your set' its whoever gets in 1st and may the best man win etc. thats ok with me but at times we can be in a set where they will be way too direct, show too much interest in their target and either scare the target away or get a result before i can even get a word in (hence why i do the majority of sarging on my own in clubs) the main problem is that its all competition to them and unless feelings such as a general interest are involved then its a race to the finish line and I want to be the ferrari to their bmw's. i can open a set ebtter then any other of them its just when they get comfortable there all 'me, me, me' any suggestions?