as you say, girls get a hyuge amount of messages. Most of them do a first-draft filter based on looks - if I get a message from a girl I don't find attractive, I'm not even interested in the message. I've seen a number of profiles on POF where the girl actually states she will not contact/reply if she doesnt fancy someone from their appearance - looks count less in real life than online IMO, I'm definitely above average looks and get better results in real life. That is my reality. I riff off being in the moment, chemistry, eye contact, voice tonality, body language.. there is no way, Ever, that the internet can ever match that. As I inferred previously, the human race has done plenty of fucking without the internet - which at the end of the day, is primarily designed for marketing purposes, email, paypal, ebay, online banking and watching repeats of californication.

If I'm your baby, remember the nappies in case I shat myself when sat on your knee