How can you make such a claim if you have never had a girlfriend? My wife is a wonderful woman who I love, she does things to make me happy but she is not responsible for my happiness. If I rested my expectations of happiness solely on her our relationship would end very quickly...Nobody is blaming you for being homeless, they have just offered some advice on how to better your life.

How do you plan on getting a girlfriend if you already know everything PUA and it hasn't worked yet?