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Default 20-03-2014, 03:04 PM

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Originally Posted by Barney Stinson View Post
I've just finished reading 'No more Mr Nice guy' after the reccomendations at the end of Models and or here.

I didnt really benefit much from this. Not sure why, maybe Ive over looked parts. Models was something I could relate to easily but that kind of connection never happened when reading No more Mr Nice guy.

I was somewhat dissapointed by it after having quite a few reccomendations. I'll give it a little time and then read it again.
The book is generally aimed at men who have grown up and developed co-dependency tendencies in their relationships (with women in particular). It helps look at the reasons these tendencies are formed (often in childhood) and how they effect later life. It then helps men to break out of the co-dependent cycles and deal with the underlying causes of them.

It could be that these are issues you have never had mate. The book won't be for everyone because not everyone's trouble with women stems from having developed co-dependency issues.

One thing I will say is I'd re recommend Rollo Tomassi - The Rational Male.

I've read this book a few times now and I learn something from each reading. Rollo gives a very real often harsh explanation to inter gender dynamics and sexual evolution. I found it very much like the red pill in so much as what has been seen cannot be unseen. If I ever have a son I would give him this book on his 18th birthday because it is something I'd have loved to have read for the first time at that age when everything seemed so confusing. It certainly doesn't have all the answers and there are a few things that I disagree with but it's certainly an excellent compass for navigating the often stormy seas of men and women's relationships.

Most of the content of his book can be found of his blog in the 'Best of Year One' section for the cheapskates among you.
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