haha no it wasn't tears of laughter. It was just the emotion. I asked her what made her cry and she didn't know. It just brought up a memory of her mum or something. That's what attracted me to music in the first place. Being shy I found it easier to convey things through music than face to face.

It's only now I'm starting to use eye contact and touching to do the same thing. It was too scary fore me before. But I suppose it was always there I was just too scared to show it. For fear of being rejected I suppose. After doing cold approach for a while it doesn't seem such a big deal now.

I like instant rapport/ assuming attraction. If I'm in that mode it usually goes well.