As Stein pointed out very well, it's not the poster that's the problem. It's the way he is seeing the world. Everything that's been said in this thread in response to the OP is only aimed at breaking down that reality that he has developed and that is going to slow down his self-development and growth in terms of picking up.

I've been there myself so I can see the signs and so can most guys on this forum. We could be all pussy and just not mention the elephant in the room. But That's not the way we do things on this forum.