Date location hmm

Indoor rockclimbing
emotions are there, trust, 'life' in each others hands, watching each others arse go up and down
exercise, hot and sweaty
something different

so basically you have asked us for somewhere you can go to touch people?
creepy.. haha
also the fact you are searching and thinking about this means you are in the fail zone
get out of it- dont care, whatever the location.
forget the outcome- it doesnt matter, just be present and not outcome dependant

thats if you really need somwhere