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Default Top-Hat's guide to Game - 11-02-2014, 09:47 PM

So as much game as I've been doing, and the success and lack of success I've experienced, I've come up with a few tips to help guys who've just come on the forum and even people who are having lack of success.

Please note I am in no way an expert or proclaim to be one.

How to start

Material: Don't bother reading anything because right now all you need to do is go up to women and start a conversation. Methods don't work because they are tailored for the owner.

Wing: In my experience finding a wing is important to make you better, but this is nothing unless you can create a strong relationship. If you work in a "if someone asks me to come out" find a wing who is super committed. If you meet someone new be cool and treat them like you would a friend.

Mindset: It's cliché for me to say it's only chatting to chicks, but it really is. If you get pissed off be pissed off but it should only last 2 minutes

Anxiety: Anxiety happens to all of us, heck I don't like night game unless I'm out with my buddies. The only thing to say about it is as soon as you do it you'll feel better about yourself, until the point where it comes instinct (1 month for me).

Fashion

There are plenty of people who'd be better suited to write this section, but here's my take on it. Like everything else here this isn't a one size fits all, but it's more apparent when you've got it wrong. Allow yourself room to explore your own styles. I read this once somewhere, the first two things a girl notices about your presentation is your hair and your Jacket. Let's start from the top.

Find your style: Find a style you like preferably something which relates to you i.e. biker, hipster, businessman, etc, then look on websites like lookbook.nu or GQ, find that style and learn what makes them cool.

Hair: Determine your face shape, then either, google the best hairstyles for that shape or, google actors you like the style of with the same face shape as you.

Now that you've found that style go out and buy some stuff and make sure everything fits, if your slim you can get away with it being tight but not too tight.

Top Half: In the winter, like mother told you, buy a nice coat, maybe even a cool thick scarf. In the summer dress down loosen up t-shirt and maybe a light blazer/cardigan/jacket!

Bottom Half: All the kids are wearing skinny jeans, 2 or 3 Levis 511's are fine not too skinny, not too wide.

Shoes: Have shoes for different occasions: Smart shoes(leather), casual smart(suede), trainers.

Originality: Not to get confused with peacocking. This should only be things that you think suit you or look cool with x item. For example I have a teal suit and a leather varsity jacket, not many people are going to buy these things.

Books

There are only two books I will ever recommend and 1 book i'd half recommend.

Mark Manson's Models: If you're stuck in PUA lala land and really want to start getting success, read it, worship it, it's the man's Bible.

Daniel Rose's Sex God Method: Once you start getting success, especially when you've got a girlfriend or a regular sexual partner, this book will help you improve your sex.

Neil Strauss' Rules of the Game: If all fails and you can't get your backside out the house. Basically follow his plan daily, but don't bother with any of the pre written lines. Use it as a guideline of how you should be progressing. But none of this is set in stone. Learn slowly and repeat stages if you must.

Dates

I can't say too much on dates as I've only had a handful, but what I would say is:

a) Call a friend before hand to get you in the mood of chatting
b) Take her out close to you and bounce between bars
c) Always go for sex, if after three dates nothing happens forget it. If you can get one you'll get another.

Rules

1) Not everything someone says is right or wrong.
2) Don't take this shit seriously.


I just puts my dick in the hole, whoever sucks is not my concern. - MarkUK

Last edited by top-hat; 11-02-2014 at 11:45 PM.
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