Good luck with this mate. My situation is very similar to yours. I was with my girl for 18 months. We'd break it off and then get back together for 6 months before it would happen again. She was super stunning, amazing in bed and ticked most of my boxes. I got comfortable and just ignored the signs that she wasn't right for me.

It took loads of introspection and pain but despite the heartache of breaking things off I can totally see what you mean about the sense of freedom you now have.

For me I'm more focused on my training than ever. I'm actually getting some business ideas off the ground with some friends and like you I have some travel plans in the pipeline for Brazil or Thailand. The world is a very exciting place with so many possibilities for me right now.

Thanks for sharing dude, and good luck with everything once again.