AHHH confusing! so there still hope haha! the nlp is more for raport/body language e.t.c think you just have to look at ross jeffries face to see that the whole subliminal october man stuff is creepy!

iv not come across that point before, i did think it was about prolonging confusion but works best for him if hes in control of whats happening. again you guys are genious! you need to teach more guys this stuff, life would be so much easier!

from this im guessing the best thing to do is just ask him what the fuck he wants....not sure how to do this without sounding like iv got expectations but fuck it!

thanks x