Friday 10th

Met up with wit a few of the guys at the porter house last night.

I still tend to get in my head far too much. However I pushed myself to do an approach with two girls who we'd seen standing at the bar for some time. I didn't really fancy either but just wanted to get going. They were a little stand-offish at first but i've come to expect that. They warmed up a little and we spoke but I didn't fancy either so I said goodbye and left.

SugarSpin next opened a couple of women at the side and I went in to wing him. I started chatting to a blonde girl, I didn't fancy her and it felt quite hard work initially. In the end I made a real effort to listen to her and found out she was a smart girl and she seemed to be enjoying talking to me. However I didn't fancy her.

I'm being more honest with myself around women, Mark Mason proposed we think of women in binary, we either find them attractive or not. None of this 1-10 scoring bull shit.

So back to the night. I spotted two women at the bar. both were attractive (blonde and brunette) and approaching them was difficult but I pushed myself to it.

Straight away the blonde did most of the talking but the brunette was just gorgeous and was staring straight at me with a huge smile, amazing. The blonde girl was from Sweden and her quieter brunette friend from Germany.

The blonde girl was being quite bitchy to me, I didn't mind this, I don't think I would have done anything differently in hindsight. She said 'are you here by yourself' I gave some pretty chilled replies however I was being a little reactive.
I thought to myself 'I did come here with guys, but I approached on myself I could do this anytime, I rock!...

I felt I had to warm the blonde girl up to have a chance with the hot brunette. I think I should have just ignored the blonde girl and talked to the hot brunette and told her I thought she was hot. (Someone told me to stop using the word should as it's pointless, perhaps I should)

After a few minutes the blonde asked if she could talk to her friend alone. So I said goodbye.

There was one other girl I thought was hot and I didn't approach and she was standing by herself looking at her phone. In my head I made an excuse that was was waiting for her boyfriend, so didn't approach. After a minute or two her girl friend arrived.... I missed out.


In summary, It's good I'm going and not drinking much and I need to keep approaching the women I find hot. Talking to a women just for the sake of it is bull shit. I'm out to meet hot women and have fun and I need to keep pushing myself in this direction.


Mark