[quote=daleinthedark;86808 I think that to be successful in the real world(day/night) or online you have to exude self-confidence and a perceived social value[/QUOTE]

This is something I am realising is so key. People often say "I just can't think what to say" /text or whatever. All this comes down to confidence. I'm still not sure what value is exactly. Isn't confidence a big part of it?