You did good putting yourself out there dude on these nights. A wing would have helped.

I think Tyler, or was it Jeffie, put it something like "a night club is an assault on the senses, nothing in a club is real, it's designed to disorientate you".

Remember that these guys were going out 7 nights a week for a long time to get comfortable in that environment. Progressive desensitisation. What is encouraging is they started out just ordinary guys and ended up living in abundance. Most of us can't make this our full time jobs but at least we're making the effort trying to get beyond the type of chodey behaviour you pointed out in your post.

We can recognise now the difference between what is cool and what is going to repel girls.