The problem with guys I think is that they have different tastes and styles. Like I really like intelligent yet innocent-appearing girls, wheras some guys like really overtly sexual women. Just take it as it comes and have fun. You're right in that you need to be prepared to lose him and I think you've got the total right attitude really so its his loss if he doesnt take his chance. Also, which part of wales are you from? My dad lives in cardiff