Really good to have adivce from people who can think the same way he does, all my girl friends can come up with is 'hes no good for you'. You have all cleared up and clarified everything so well! and thanks again for listening to me moan!

Flake, think ill give that a try, even if you do make it sound alot easier than it is! seeing him tomorrow in an attempt to see how nieve i am really being! But Blanca, I know that what you are saying is correct. I need to be willing to loose him as a best friend to get him, or not! Attraction is unfortunately not a choice, ignoring him and getting over him is easier said than done! he rarely contacts me so im sure he cant be bothered to chase me..even if i am amazing !

Would be interesting to hear another girsl point of view on the game, i dont know any other girls who are aware of it....could you show me her post please?

In the mean time, if any clever puas need a wing girl in wales lol or want to come and help me DHV.....only joking..thanks again!

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