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Default 21-10-2013, 11:29 PM

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Well my social maladjustment is directly related to issues in my past which is where they will stay.
I could write you a response three times in length of that of my previous one in relation to your above quote. But in lieu of how you've responded to some of the sound advice offered to you on this thread I can't be bothered wasting my time. I'l sum up my thoughts on this in one sentence for you.

If this is how you feel then you and you're social maladjustment best become fast friends.

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"There are some people here that condemn others due to their own views, although within reason using psycological evaluation to analyse some personalities shown, i would say that there MAY be some individuals that are insecure within themselves and must use insults to others as a way to make themselves feel better and superior, and as per some advice given to me I would like to point out that we are ALL human beings, adfitionally this in all honestly makes us all flawed as no one is perfect."
I'm not sure who you've quoted here, Google doesn't recognise it and as it's not referenced so I'm inclined to believe it's your own work dressed up with quotation marks to give it it's own credence. Criticizing others as insecure and claiming they have superiority issues is laughable. Your so hung up on the superiority thing, you've said earlier literally every average guy is a threat to you. Your sketchy about your past and from what you've posted and how you've responded I can only assume you've suffered some form of bullying or abuse when you were younger. If this is true, it seems your current way of dealing with it is repression and denial. These coping mechanisms will not help you. If you are interested in helping yourself then Google John Bradshaw, some of his stuff might help you out.

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Which is why I stated that my past is staying where it is. Defeated and burried.
This quote backs up my second paragraph. I can assure you those issues from your past are not defeated and buried but are very much alive and are holding you back from the life you want to live.

You've been given plenty of sound advice of this thread from various members and if you heed it, it can help you. Unfortunately I'm not convinced you want to be helped.

As with most everyone else in regards to this thread.

Good luck but I'm out.
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