19-10-2013, 02:22 AM
the "convincer" as psychologists call it is the actual real life experience. Your brain will rewire itself quickly in the moment when you are challenged. But you have to push yourself into those risky situations where that will happen. Seeking safe ways of learning is very slow. You can't learn anything if you don't make the mistakes. But it's good to have support from people who understand what it feels like.
Can't live with them, can't live with them
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