If your looking for a quick fix you aren't going to find it here, or anywhere for that matter, quick fixes don't exist. The process here is long and heavily focused on self discovery more than anything else and it's not going to happen overnight.

That being said, if you are genuine and looking for help, the guys here can give you some pretty solid advice and help you along the way, but you've got to be willing to put in the effort and keep at it.

Try giving a bit more information about yourself, your situation and what you want to achieve.