I dunno about shelf life love . . . . . . .In the words of Tony Montana " I really hope to be having that kinda problem Frank . . . ." never heard the term SLL before . . . . . the whole reason I'm here is to get myself back "in the game" after a year and a half abscence (been dating via internet websites etc. but not really the same eh) is due to breaking up with my ex and suffering fromt he dreaded "oneitis" . . . . . . Dunno about SLL, but that has got to be the real bitch of the bunch lol. Good luck with it mate, I know what you mean about having a "certain type" as Im in the same boat and often feel like im writing off 90% of women out there. So when does come along that fits the bill, you tend to go over-board. Wish I had your problems though mate lol.