A lot of your post was structured, thoughtful and insightful (and helpful). But some of it was presumptuous of what other people think of me when I'm talking to them.

What I mean is mind reading imaginary people (people you imagine me talking to) and concluding that what they perceive in my external behaviour (talking) which you constructed only from the information you got from the words in my posts (which you admitted you never read the whole of), always leads to the internal state of these imaginary people being boredom.

Sorry, but that's too big a jump and not reality. I thought we were about being present and experiencing things first hand, not making instant judgements about things or people?