Thanks SmileyK,

You hit the nail on the head.

I should explain a bit....

I was living in the Isle of Dogs and SE London when I first came to London. A while back I moved out to a small town in herts with good links to London (40 min train ride) which I need as I have to commute to London for work 5 days a week. I'm in a smallish town (probably part of the problem) but go out in London whenever I get the chance.

I think you're right that my mates in this town should be matey mates if you know what I mean. We talk about football and all that and have a pint. I need to branch out a bit for the PU.

I'd be up for a link up in London some time soon!