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Originally Posted by BroadswordWSJ
Overall answer is no I'm not; its pretty difficult to do once you hit your thirties. People don;t go out and socialise in the same way. Of my 15 friends, 14 of them are attached, only 1 single. Thus as you get older, personal life and other commitments, especially when quite a few of them now have kids take priority. My days of going out on the town clubbing were long gone as far back as around 3-4 years ago, I'm only ever out now if its a specific occasion or social event, nobody goes out anymore just for the sake of it
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I’m 33, so know exactly where you are coming from here. I rarely hit the clubs any more, and if I do, it’s purely for the music.
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Originally Posted by BroadswordWSJ
Overall, I suppose you could say my opportunities of meeting woman are fairly limited, but thats not uncommon once you get to my age. in fact, I think I've only actually met 2 new woman this year - 1 of them is the girl I liekd in the friendzone thread I posted in this forum earlier which didn't go anywhere.
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Think about what other ways there are to meet girls, the clubs are not the be all and end all. I tend to go to art events and music events a lot, and there are always plenty of interesting girls there who I tend to meet. So, what interests do you have?
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Originally Posted by BroadswordWSJ
How the hell you've asked out over 38 woman in the last month is beyond me? Unless your just going out "sarging" and approaching as many woman as you can. I respect someones decesion to do this, but I also hope you can respect my thoguhts in that I don't agree with going out for the specific purpose of robotically running game on any target that walks by you during a day/night. Its just too fake and unreal for me. If i don't fancy them or like the look I simply can't just approach for the pure sake of it.
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I don’t approach as many women as I can, or just for the sake of it. If I was out on a Saturday afternoon in town I’d probably approach between 5-10 girls. Generally a couple of these girls I really vibe well with as they dress a certain way or are into something interesting. I don’t see what might be fake about this, but I understand if you find it unreal. It was unreal to me for so long. Now it is quite normal.