This is something that has always annoyed me. A girl would be all over me upon meeting her, and after me not doing anything about it, I would go back over to her with ‘taking action’ in mind, and she would then make her excuses. All I can think here is that the moment had passed, and the window of opportunity has slammed shut. It kind of highlights the need to be present and live in the moment. Once you go over with an agenda it fucks things up.