Thanks Dice/both...

Last year I was Mr Social with the craziest diary life had ever seen with travel planned every 6 weeks. At the start of this year I promised myself to step back and just chill. So I didnt accept party invites, stopped seeing some of the people I used to and 5/6 months in now I have an empty calendar and look positively boring! I can see how this is affecting me and also how other perceive me.

The lady knows of my past - but of course memories wear off and all she sees now is a guy who does not have his own life sitting about waiting to see her free at her beckon call.

Hobbies & own social life it is... that starts now.

Thanks!

PS: Any suggestions on books/places to learn more about inner game and getting this handled?