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Originally Posted by dan300
Nahhhhh, don't think so.
You don't just lose your anxiety in one "SHB" approach. If only.
I've approached super hot blonde bombshells 10/10, even got their number, & felt like the king & that I was now "cured"
But that's not what happens. You just need to keep at it, all the time.
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Yeah dude, poor choice of words by me.
It was meant to mean that I fucked up the chance to approach so if/when I see her next time I will force myself to just approach; the breakthrough would be to just literally talk to her.
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Originally Posted by nova
If I am trying to make excuses not to approach I tend to think to myself, 'what if this girl turns out to be my dream girl'. I then realise I have to approach, else end up feeling 'what if'.
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Cheers dude I'll use that
I say to myself 'she is just another person, maybe our conversation will be the highlight of our day'..
I am extremely self critical and although it is a fantastic motivator, it is also a massive hindrance for future approaches because I tend to up the anti too much to stuff like 'she is just a girl, stop been a fucking pussy and approach her, talk to her, escalate. C'mon dude' ... both motivation and also hinderance, plus I'm setting myself goals before even being in the interaction.